Monday, March 20, 2006

Pornography And You

Few days ago, someone showed me the link to the true story of a serial killer, Ted Bundy. I felt very sad reading his story. A handsome, promising, smart, young man, can be led astray just like that. I hope guys who are reading this story will realize the harm pornography can brings to their lives and that of the innocent gals.

Yahoo search of "Ted Bundy" will bring you to more accounts of this man. Below are excerpts I like to highlight. You may read the full interview by clicking the link below.


Fatal Addiction
Ted Bundy's Final Interview

Ted Bundy, an infamous serial killer, granted an interview to psychologist James Dobson just before he was executed on January 24, 1989. In that interview, he described the agony of his addiction to pornography. Bundy goes back to his roots, explaining the development of his compulsive behavior. He reveals his addiction to hard-core pornography and how it fueled the terrible crimes he committed.

Ted Bundy wanted to tell the world about pornography
What was it that Ted Bundy was so anxious to say? He felt he owed it to society to warn of the dangers of hard-core pornography and to explain how it had led him to murder so many innocent women and girls. With tears in his eyes, he described the monster that took possession of him when he had been drinking. His craze to kill was always inflamed by violent pornography. Quoted below is an edited transcript of the conversation that occurred just seventeen hours before Ted was led to the electric chair.


JCD: Walk me through that. What was going on in your mind at that time?

Ted: Before we go any further, it is important to me that people believe what I’m saying. I’m not blaming pornography. I’m not saying it caused me to go out and do certain things. I take full responsibility for all the things that I’ve done. That’s not the question here. The issue is how this kind of literature contributed and helped mold and shape the kinds of violent behavior.

JCD: It fueled your fantasies.

Ted: In the beginning, it fuels this kind of thought process. Then, at a certain time, it is instrumental in crystallizing it, making it into something that is almost a separate entity inside. (see what James 1:13-15 says about this)

JCD: Would it be accurate to call that a sexual frenzy?

Ted: That’s one way to describe it - a compulsion, a building up of this destructive energy. Another fact I haven’t mentioned is the use of alcohol. In conjunction with my exposure to pornography, alcohol reduced my inhibitions and pornography eroded them further.

JCD: Outside these walls, there are several hundred reporters that wanted to talk to you, and you asked me to come because you had something you wanted to say. You feel that hardcore pornography, and the door to it, soft core pornography, is doing untold damage to other people and causing other women to be abused and killed the way you did.

Ted: I’m no social scientist, and I don’t pretend to believe what John Q. Citizen thinks about this, but I’ve lived in prison for a long time now, and I’ve met a lot of men who were motivated to commit violence. Without exception, every one of them was deeply involved in pornography - deeply consumed by the addiction. The F.B.I.’s own study on serial homicide shows that the most common interest among serial killers is pornographers. It’s true.



Ted Bundy was executed at 7:15 am the day after this conversation was recorded. (He became a Christian before his death)

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At 21 March, 2006 04:01, Blogger Richard said...

Trying to boost your web hits and search engine ratings?

From the Catechism of the Catholic Church: Pornography consists in removing real or simulated sexual acts from the intimacy of the partners, in order to display them deliberately to third parties. It offends against chastity because it perverts the conjugal act, the intimate giving of spouses to each other. It does grave injury to the dignity of its participants (actors, vendors, the public), since each one becomes an object of base pleasure and illicit profit for others. It immerses all who are involved in the illusion of a fantasy world.

For me, pornography is not a problem, it is a symptom or an expression or an outlet of deeper seated problems. Pornography is not the only symptom: intoxication (whether by licit or illicit substances), abuse, violence, and any other blights are symptomatic of humanity’s sinfulness. It is an oozing out of the evil we try to keep hidden beneath a carefully manicured veneer of civilization.

Addressing the symptoms, without addressing the causes only gives the illusion of health.

 
At 21 March, 2006 08:11, Blogger Elvina aka LaoNiang said...

I agree with Richard. Every deviant act from norm - behaviour, thought, speech or otherwise - is often a result of a deeper root cause.

Could be the corruption of the mind, soul and body - succumbing to the irresistible luxuries that sin has to offer.

That's why God introduced the 10 commandments. That's why humans created LAWS.

A human ecosystem with no laws in place, will only give rise to sins in unimaginable degrees, which may be expounded into extreme behaviour as humans are given absolute freedom to act out what their hearts' desire.

 
At 21 March, 2006 12:25, Blogger buzybee said...

Richard and Elvina, thanks for sharing your thoughts.


Richard said: Trying to boost your web hits and search engine ratings?

Huh? What do you mean by that?

Richard said: Addressing the symptoms, without addressing the causes only gives the illusion of health.

True in a way, but something still need to be done about the symptoms isnt it? I think Elvina has answered your concern with, "A human ecosystem with no laws in place, will only give rise to sins in unimaginable degrees, which may be expounded into extreme behaviour as humans are given absolute freedom to act out what their hearts' desire."

 
At 22 March, 2006 04:34, Blogger Richard said...

Certain keywords are searched more often than others.

I was teasing you by implying that you wanted to get more hits on your blog by including pornography in the list of words found on your blog to boost the number of search engine hits.

You can find out how popular a search term a word of phrase is here.

So my dream of writing a book on the FLTK graphics library shows that there were a total of 175 queries using that term in Feb-2006. Now, had I chosen to write on pornography, I can see that the were 105145 searches on that term (170,506 if you include the other combined searches) in Feb-2006. Clearly, FLTK is not as popular as other topics.

 
At 22 March, 2006 08:17, Blogger buzybee said...

Richard said: I was teasing you by implying that you wanted to get more hits on your blog by including pornography in the list of words found on your blog to boost the number of search engine hits.

Ah... why didn't I thought of that? Thanks for sharing.

Actually the word "funny" (281,234) has got more hit counts than "pornography" (105,154) using the Keyword Selector Tool. Whereas, in actual Yahoo search, it suggests 2M links to "pornography" and 281M links to "funny". So it's a consolation that more people prefer jokes than pornoraphy. :)

But I guess my entry would be at the bottom of the list. Even if any ever found this entry in that way, I guess it is good for them to read it.

Cheers.

 

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